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The Birth of
Izaiah John
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My water breaks at 11:15, an hour later
contractions
begin. It is a fast labor and things move quickly, so
quickly we forget all about taking any pictures. After only 2 hours of
labor I start feeling the urge
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As we discussed before with my
midwife, we
wait another hour before beginning the pushing. It is
a hard hour, feeling a strong urge to push and denying
my body the pleasure, but my husband Mark and our
birth team get me through. |
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Pushing goes quickly
as well and in in just a few pushes we see some little toes. As the whole
foot emerges, one of the midwives remarks- "This would make a great
photo!" My husband runs for the camera and we start to take photos.
(Here you can see
the difference between pushing and
not pushing. The foot slides out with each push and
goes back a little bit between, just like with a head
down presentation. (next 2 pictures below)) |
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I picked a standing position for the
first part of
pushing. I felt the urge to put my foot up on the bed
and lean in.
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I could feel the bones in my pelvis
shift apart when I did this, making room for the baby,
very cool. |
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My midwife suggested I move to the
birth stool and try
some pushing there (just to see what would work best). Here you can see
the legs come out together. I had the urge to put my hands down to my
perineum at that point.
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My midwife told me later that "hands
off the
breech" was so ingrained in her that she almost asked
me not to touch the baby, or my perineum, but decided
a mother's loving hands were different from her own,
and since my birthing instincts were serving me well,
she decided not to say anything. |
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Pushing was really enjoyable to me
(perhaps because of the long wait). I felt so elated and powerful. My
husband captured me smiling here during a big push.
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And here come the... |
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knees into view. |
And another big push and the baby is
out to the navel.
My midwife makes sure there is a little slack in the
cord so it is not pulling.
Here is where my midwife's support midwife reminds me to just keep
pushing- even without a contraction, to
get the baby born fast. |
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Some birth attendants feel strongly
that there is a 4-5 minute window to get a breech baby out after the cord
comes into view. I know this ahead of time so this does not phase me- |
I just put all my effort into getting
my baby out. I
feel powerful and in control; I know I can do it! I
begin pushing continuously, only stopping to take deep
breaths. |
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My midwife keeps her fingers on the
cord lightly, so
she can monitor the heart rate- the baby is doing
great, his heart is beating in the 150's the whole
labor and birth. They reach in to see if the arms
need a little help; they are both right there. |
The support midwife tells me later she
could not believe
all of the room I still had for the baby to come, my
tissues were very stretchy and there was plenty of room for the arms to come down. |
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My midwife tells me to reach down...
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...and she guides me so I can catch my
own baby. |
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I lift my baby up onto the bed.
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Everyone has known for the last four
minutes the baby's sex, but they wait so I can discover it for myself. |
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It's a little boy! Well not so little,
at four days
past my due date- he is a big, healthy 8lbs 10oz. I
rub and kiss him all warm and wet with amniotic fluid. He starts to breathe right away. The oxygen is
standing by and so is a bulb syringe in case he needs
a little help, but he is pink and happy. |
He does not cry but starts to look at
all of us in wonderment.
I look at my beautiful little boy in amazement. I
cannot believe that the whole labor is over so soon.
I kiss my husband, "That was fun Honey, when can we
have another," I say to his joyful face.
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Our little family settles in. After
the cord stops
pulsing I feel an overwhelming urge to get the
placenta out. My husband cuts the cord so I can squat
next to the bed and push out the placenta. He holds
the baby, because I feel the need to concentrate just
on getting the placenta out. A few pushes later the
placenta is out, and there are two, a big one and a
little one connected with a single large vein through
the amniotic sac. Very interesting!
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We settle in as a family to nurse and
rest. My
awesome birth assistant takes this photo of us.
The Birth of Izaiah John-
November 27th, 2003
8lbs 10oz Apgars of 10 and 10
My breech score at 40 4/7? a big fat
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As an
afterward...
It was difficult and exhausting during the
last few weeks of my pregnancy finding a new midwife who felt comfortable
attending a breech birth, and at the same time trying everything to turn the
baby head down. We tried everything and spent lots of money on chiropractic,
and moxibustion in addition to all of the other positional and homeopathic
remedies to turn the baby. We scheduled two external versions; one with a
doctor in the hospital and another with a midwife. He decided against turning
our baby because it was so low in my pelvis. The experienced midwife tried
again, after the baby turned transverse, but the baby, although very happy to
have her try for sometime, did not go head down. We are very grateful she
offered to put our baby back feet first, so we could try to give birth
vaginally. And that was all we wanted; A chance to give birth vaginally. We
got so much more than that- we had the birth of our dreams.
This
could not have been possible without the support of my first midwives, a loving
caring practice of CNM's, who helped me find a breech birth attendant when they
could no longer attend my birth, my co-operating doctor who agreed to take me as
an emergency if we ran into trouble at home, and my fantastic midwife! Who gave
me a chance! I would also like to thank my birth assistant and my Bradley
teacher for supporting me, no matter what. Last of all, I would like to thank
my husband Mark. Who was not only the best doula for me during my birth, but
cheered me up when I was low, had so much confidence in me and our birth team,
held me when I cried during those last few weeks of pregnancy, and never once
suggested we should schedule a c-section.
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